There comes a point in time when you mist find the strength to FORGIVE those who may have wronged you! It has nothing to do with that other person though. Forgiveness is for you alone. It clears out a space in your head and in your heart, so that you can feel peace again.
Forgiving does not mean that you forget…but rather that you rember without the pain, without the anger or resentment. It frees your soul for more important things. Remembering, allows you to apply any lessons learned, without wasting to energy of still being angry or upset.
So, no matter what the other person did…you owe it to yourself to move past the wrongs that were done. Love yourself enough to move forward.